布琳·布朗：唤起勇气 Brené Brown: The Call To Courage (2019)

“It’s not the critic who counts. It’s not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles or where the doer of deeds could have done it different. The credit belongs to the person who’s actually in the arena, whose face is marred with dust and sweat and blood, who strives valiantly, who errs, who comes up short again and again and again, and who, in the end, while he may know the triumph of high achievement, at least when he fails, he does so daring greatly.” 虽败...

It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better.
（重要的从来不是那些批评者；不是那些指责强者跌倒的人，也不是那些挑剔实干家没有做到最好的人。）
The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again,because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; bu...

我最欣赏的Brene Brown 谈《召唤勇气 The call to courage 》，你知道吗？其实勇敢刚脆弱，并不是一条线的两端，而是同一件事，圣经上说的“什么时候软弱，什么时候就刚强了。”原来还可以透过心理学、生物神经学验证。
以下三点是我从中撷取归纳整理的，老实说第三点不太确定，现在有文化差异😂
1. 站在竞技场，无视观众，注视所爱
“所有的赞誉全属于站在竞技场里的人，因为他的脸上沾满了灰尘、汗水与血水。”竞技场外的观众，不管提出的意见多好，都不是真正的英雄。
这些排山倒海的意见会压垮你...

在伦敦闻名世界的威斯敏斯特大教堂地下室的墓碑林中，有一块名扬世界的墓碑。在这块墓碑上，刻着这样的一段话：
When I was young and free and my imagination had no limits，I dreamed of changing theworld.
As I grew older and wiser， I discovered the world would not change， so I shortened my sights somewhat and decided to change only my country. But it， too， seemed immovable.
As I grewinto my twilight years， in one last desperate attempt， I settled for changing only my fami...